Marriage works on give and take
Helping each other whenever life shake,
Its a relationship between not only mates
But a strong bond between two frames,
Always show how much you care indeed
Forgive eachother whenever it need,
So,Let your love grow more with time
Because together you have to walk miles…
Marriage refers to
“the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship”
Well there is two types of marriages
Arranged and love
Both of them have there own pros and cons
In india arranged marriages are more preferable than love marriages
As marriage is not just a union of two people but it is a relation of two families, two different families which are now more closely linked than ever before. An arranged marriage focuses on family. While looking for a partner for their son or daughter, parents will first check out whole family background of bride or groom, do they share same social-economic beliefs,education level etc.
If all that factors are relatable than feel safe and marry there son or daughter into that family.
In arranged marriage stability and security seem to be most valuable and whole family supports couple in there newly married life..
Arranged marriage provide uh security and comfortable and well arranged environment to adjust in…and there is also low chances of divorce in arranged marriages.
Critics of arranged marriage is that no more importance is given to how couple feels for each other…
Emotional and physical compatiblity is neglected over practical cobsideration..
Even couple not get enough time to know each other and once they get married there is no other option than adjustment..
And love factor is taken that it ‘grow in time’.
Couples prefer this type of marraiges for stability in there family for happiness of there parents or with believe that there parent know there choice better and will find perfect partner for them..
It seems perfect,we find over soulmate fall in love and then get married and live happily ever after..
But love marriage needs as much as work in arranged marriage..its an individual choice to select a life partner no family is blame or responsible if not work out,there is lack of family support in love marriage and it just a couple who have to take whole responsiblity to maintain there relation…
A statistic says that ‘love’ in an arranged marriage apparently reaches its peak when the couple have been married about 5 yrs. On ither hand the peak of a love marriage would already have been reached before this time and started diclining. This could be because people enter love marriages with a lot of expectations. In contrast, one might enter an arranged marriage with much lower expectations and not expect everything to work out immediately.
No arranged and love marriage is responsible for a successfull marriage life patience,understanding,less expectations,proper communication and family bonding will help for longlasting marriage life even it is arranged or love..
Well i will go for arranged marriage!!!
Which one You go for??