Marriage works on give and take

Marriage works on give and take
Helping each other whenever life shake,
Its a relationship between not only mates
But a strong bond between two frames,
Always show how much you care indeed
Forgive eachother whenever it need,
So,Let your love grow more with time
Because together you have to walk miles…

Marriage refers to

“the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship”

Well there is two types of marriages

Arranged and love

Both of them have there own pros and cons
Lets discuss

Arranged marriage:-

In india arranged marriages are more preferable than love marriages
As marriage is not just a union of two people but it is a relation of  two families, two different families which are now more closely linked than ever before. An arranged marriage focuses on family. While looking for a partner for their son or daughter, parents will first check out whole family background of bride or groom, do they share same social-economic beliefs,education level etc.
If all that factors are relatable than feel safe and marry there son or daughter into that family.
In arranged marriage stability and security seem to be most valuable and whole family supports couple in there newly married life..
Arranged marriage provide uh security and comfortable and well arranged environment to adjust in…and there is also low chances of divorce in arranged marriages.
Critics of arranged marriage is that no more importance is given to how couple feels for each other…
Emotional and physical compatiblity is neglected over practical cobsideration..
Even couple not get enough time to know each other and once they get married there is no other option than adjustment..
And love factor is taken that it ‘grow in time’.
Couples prefer this type of marraiges for stability in there family for happiness of there parents or with believe that there parent know there choice better and will find perfect partner for them..

Love marriage:-

It seems perfect,we find over soulmate fall in love and then get married and live happily ever after..
But love marriage needs as much as work in arranged marriage..its an individual choice to select a life partner no family is blame or responsible if not work out,there is lack of family support in love marriage and it just a couple who have to take whole responsiblity to maintain there relation…
A statistic says that ‘love’ in an arranged marriage apparently reaches its peak when the couple have been married about 5 yrs. On ither hand the peak of a love marriage would already have been reached before this time and started diclining. This could be because people enter love marriages with a lot of expectations. In contrast, one might enter an arranged marriage with much lower expectations and not expect everything to work out immediately.
No arranged and love marriage is responsible for a successfull marriage life patience,understanding,less expectations,proper communication and family bonding will help for longlasting marriage life even it is arranged or love..

Well i will go for arranged marriage!!!
Which one You go for??


Best friends…

I was always thankfull
But unable to explain,
Whenever i was angry
I just exclaimed.
They were always there
At my meseries and fame,
Always supports me
Whenever i feel lame.
They made me laugh more
And cry less,
There surprises make me
feel special & best.
sometimes i was rude
But they always stay,
I always feel surronded,
Because i know they are just a call away.

Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between people.”

Its a relationship where you are not bonded with any kind of custom,duty ,tradition,ritual etc you are free to express your thoughts,sorrow,happiness,madness with a person with whom you don’t have any blood relation,any social relation uh are just bonded with your hearts.
Best friends knows you inside and out,deepest and darkest secrets and keep them forever,they know your flaws and still choose to be with you,
They hold your hand when you are crying and laugh with you when you are laughing harder.

So,if you are lucky one to have a bestfriends just stick to them and never let anyone destroy your bond..

Unleash your inner child

In your grown up body 

There is a little you inside.
In this busy life shedule
Between worlds heavy tide,
We have to listen it
And let it fly.
Its good to act mature,
But sometime its nice to be a child.

 inner child:- Each of us has a child residing deep inside us, one that is a direct descendant of the child we once were.

Your inner child is the most valuable part of you,the purest one,it is actually the child you once were and it will stay forever within you..
 Think about all the fun and activity you were enjoying at your chilhood,”don’t you want to occasionally enjoy them now when you are an adult”?
Trust me you would love to!!
And there is nothing wrong with it.
its ok to be hang out with your old friends,take a nap in your parents lap,watch your favourite tv show, wear some funky clothes out of formal,eat a cotton candy,play with a doll and your old toys.

You want to do all this but you are afraid of world because society is addressing you certain behaviours and none of them respects “acting childish”
Don’t live your life for sake of society do what you love to do because calling your inner child and having fun will provide you peace and fresh start.

Be a gentle man or woman for a world but for self stay little chiku and pinky and enjoy every little momment that a child do.

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Oh my dear,

Why between us this fear.
If something is wrong,
Talk to me let me hear.
What is your suffering,
what uh bear.
Don’t be so worry,
I’m here.
Lay on my shoulder,
Burst out all tear.
I promise baby,
All your pain will disappear.

Why people said love hurts??..
Is it really….
True love never hurts…what actually hurts is your negative thinking,insecurities,over expectations,ego,dependancy and many more factors but trust me love never hurts and the roots of all these factors are lack of communication in relationship…its really important to share your emotions with your partner because one can only help you,support you if they are aware of your condition..
 So, basically what we are discussing here is “communication in relationship”

Sometime our personal life problems also ruin relationship,we are so busy and trapped with problems that we can’t give time to our beloved,and sometime we also behave aggresive with them even your partner was not aware of your problems, they are blamed.

So, here also a solution is communication..share your problem with your partner and  let him be a part of your rescue. By sharing your problem your not bothering them but you making them feel that they are a special person whom uh need at your bad me if you are in true relationship this will make your bond stronger…

The moment we start believing that love does not hurts infact go hand in hand with pain the momment we will settle for the best & only the best.. what we have to do is sharing each other problems and caring what your partner feels.

Don’t forget its you & your partner v/s problem not you v/s your partner

Sow happiness to reap happiness

“Happiness is not something
You buy from store,
Making others happy
Makes you happy more.
To reap happiness
First uh have to sow,
Don’t expect from someone
Spread it by your own”.

What is happiness??..
Well google have answer for all our question so, according to the google
– state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy..

So now from where we get this state??
In these busy world where no one have time for there own, happiness is just lost somewhere.

Staying happy now a days become a task people use to go cinemas,standup comedy shows etc but those smile and laughter is just for an hour or a day not longlasting.
Actually people in search of happiness  forget to create one!!! Expecting someone by there efforts and acts makes you happy always result in disappointment, If you really want to be happy make others happy
Going through street helping underpriviliaged children gifting them copy pencil and some eatables makes you happy,Blessing by  an old man helping him crossing street make you happy,spending more and more time with ur beloved and making them feel special makes you happy. Happiness  don’t come in beautifully wrapped boxes and in beautifull envelops it comes in muddy water in rain. Helping others make your soul happy and everytime you see the face you helped once make you feel happy.

So here is our answer “You get that state of intense joy by making others happy”
So Create happiness in world by your efforts and stay happy.

confused still ? Lets see in action..
Give them to recieve yours

Once in a class of 50 students teacher decided to do a group activity. He started giving each student a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.

Now these delegates were left in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written, within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other, pushing around others.
At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon.
Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the the person whose name was written on it.
Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The teacher began— Exactly this is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.

Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness, you will get your own happiness.

And this is the purpose of human life.Is this not what you are looking for?

Have a nice and happy day 🙂


Sharing your thoughts ideas feeling through words makes uh and your reader feel happy

I really love to write poems and content throughout my school life and praised by my friends and classmate but i never get a platform to chase my talent and i just forget about it..suddenly one day writing some content and motivated by loved one encourage me to give a voice to my words so i hope i do my best by writing some good stuf  and being praised by more and more people in this journey…